Lana Blakely
Lana Blakely
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Red Flags, Icks, and Toxic Traits… Is Dating Doomed?
#ad Go to betterhelp.com/lana for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help
Chapters:
00:14 - Icks
01:45 My first time getting the ick
02:38 - The psychology of icks
02:51 - The evolutionary perspective
04:22 - The attachment style perspective
05:30 - The having different values perspective
06:33 - The it’s complex perspective
07:19 - What to do when you experience the ick
07:47 - You don’t have to go through it alone
09:42 - Red flags
09:44 - What’s a red flag?
10:30 - Breaking down a common red flag
11:48 - An example from my life
12:47 - Calling you out
14:05 - Have red flags gone too far?
15:15 - Gaslighting
15:17 - What is gaslightin...
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Видео

How to EXIT your lazy & unmotivated era
Просмотров 48 тыс.Месяц назад
ad Head to biosites.com/lanablakely to create your own Bio Site today. Oh and don't forget to check out my BioSites here & let me know what you think of the design!! bio.site/lanablakely Get the book here: geni.us/ZQAGd6 Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction 01:28 - A great productivity tool 03:13 - The illusion of control 05:06 - FOMO 05:38 - The efficiency trap 06:56 - Become a better procrastinator...
Let’s get organised: Starter pack for chaotic people
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ad Try CleanMyMac X with a 7 day-free trial to help your computer work at its fullest potential bit.ly/LanaBlakelyCMMX and buy with a 20% discount with my code LANA20 Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction 00:14 - Steer clear of labels 01:17 - Everything goes in the calendar 02:17 - Keep your mac clean 04:17 - Write everything down 06:23 - Make it more fun 07:06 - Let go of the idea of perfection 08:30...
Getting Back Into My *Hot Girl* Routines
Просмотров 62 тыс.Месяц назад
ad Click my trainwell (formerly CoPilot) link go.trainwell.net/LanaBlakely-cp to get 14 days FREE with your own expert personal trainer! Newsletter ⟶ www.lanablakely.com My podcast ⟶ geni.us/lanablakelypod 🤎 Help support here (if you can) ⟶ www.patreon.com/lanablakely Instagram ⟶ lanablakely Twitter ⟶ lanablakelys Facebook ⟶ lanablakelys TikTok ⟶ www.tikto...
The Lies of Hookup Culture
Просмотров 76 тыс.2 месяца назад
#ad Go to betterhelp.com/lana for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction 00:53 - My story 04:14 - Sociosexuality 05:34 - Pseudo-relationships 06:46 - The Big O Gap 07:45 - Loveless sex is not empowering Newsletter ⟶ www.lanablakely.com My podcast ⟶ geni.us/lanablakelypod 🤎 Help support here (if...
He ghosted me.
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Newsletter ⟶ www.lanablakely.com My podcast ⟶ geni.us/lanablakelypod 🤎 Help support here (if you can) ⟶ www.patreon.com/lanablakely Instagram ⟶ lanablakely Twitter ⟶ lanablakelys Facebook ⟶ lanablakelys TikTok ⟶ www.tiktok.com/lanablakely Take my journaling class for free here ⟶ skl.sh/3PTWRP8 What I use to make my videos: Where I get my music ⟶ geni.us/la...
7 Simple Habits for Health & Happiness :)
Просмотров 60 тыс.2 месяца назад
Check out shortform and get a free trial and 20% discount at shortform.com/lana Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction 02:19 - Productivity 05:02 - Motion 07:09 - Lagom 08:43 - Fika 09:59 - No shoes in bed 10:19 - Niksen 11:09 - Traditions Newsletter ⟶ www.lanablakely.com My podcast ⟶ geni.us/lanablakelypod 🤎 Help support here (if you can) ⟶ www.patreon.com/lanablakely Instagram ⟶ lanabla...
6 Things That Made Me a Less Anxious Person
Просмотров 81 тыс.3 месяца назад
6 Things That Made Me a Less Anxious Person
You're not the *main character*... You're just selfish.
Просмотров 86 тыс.3 месяца назад
You're not the *main character*... You're just selfish.
The Lies of Female Friendships, Competition and Jealousy
Просмотров 157 тыс.4 месяца назад
The Lies of Female Friendships, Competition and Jealousy
The Epidemic of Feeling Ugly, Lonely and Jealous
Просмотров 136 тыс.4 месяца назад
The Epidemic of Feeling Ugly, Lonely and Jealous
The Lies of Modern Friendships, Social Anxiety and Loneliness
Просмотров 257 тыс.5 месяцев назад
The Lies of Modern Friendships, Social Anxiety and Loneliness
All the difficult things I had to re-learn this year
Просмотров 106 тыс.6 месяцев назад
All the difficult things I had to re-learn this year
A minimalist guide to a balanced life
Просмотров 90 тыс.6 месяцев назад
A minimalist guide to a balanced life
6 habits of people who love themselves :)
Просмотров 129 тыс.7 месяцев назад
6 habits of people who love themselves :)
Every introvert needs to learn this
Просмотров 104 тыс.7 месяцев назад
Every introvert needs to learn this
Having my last sip of alcohol
Просмотров 60 тыс.7 месяцев назад
Having my last sip of alcohol
The simplest way to confidence, according to science :)
Просмотров 139 тыс.8 месяцев назад
The simplest way to confidence, according to science :)
a video to watch when you need to calm down
Просмотров 102 тыс.8 месяцев назад
a video to watch when you need to calm down
8 Essential *Hot Girl* Habits
Просмотров 776 тыс.9 месяцев назад
8 Essential *Hot Girl* Habits
I finally bought an apartment in the city
Просмотров 61 тыс.9 месяцев назад
I finally bought an apartment in the city
So we’ve been dating all wrong, science says.
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So we’ve been dating all wrong, science says.
Things only highly sensitive people understand :')
Просмотров 159 тыс.10 месяцев назад
Things only highly sensitive people understand :')
Finding Love in the Modern Dating Culture (with Nathaniel Drew)
Просмотров 229 тыс.11 месяцев назад
Finding Love in the Modern Dating Culture (with Nathaniel Drew)
7 Essential *Healthy Girl* Habits
Просмотров 510 тыс.Год назад
7 Essential *Healthy Girl* Habits
13 pieces of advice you didn't ask for but need to hear
Просмотров 197 тыс.Год назад
13 pieces of advice you didn't ask for but need to hear
Simple Ideas For People With Social Anxiety
Просмотров 139 тыс.Год назад
Simple Ideas For People With Social Anxiety
Should You Live Alone, With Roommates or With a Partner?
Просмотров 97 тыс.Год назад
Should You Live Alone, With Roommates or With a Partner?
To anyone dealing with anxiety & insecurities
Просмотров 126 тыс.Год назад
To anyone dealing with anxiety & insecurities
Motivation is easy: How to STAY fit and healthy
Просмотров 293 тыс.Год назад
Motivation is easy: How to STAY fit and healthy

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  • @lindarockower6028
    @lindarockower6028 День назад

    Thank you.

  • @kasoncluff-sl5yj
    @kasoncluff-sl5yj День назад

    Bro ever since I’ve moved when I was eleven I moved from a city to a tiny dump town and I’ve just never healed that much mentally

  • @rahima9618
    @rahima9618 День назад

    Nobody will understand. Ever

  • @dheandracelesta
    @dheandracelesta День назад

    Such an Amazing Video! I relate on a personal level

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    @shaimakamil4077 День назад

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  • @aeswkoo
    @aeswkoo День назад

    I don't know. I always feel like my feelings and emotions aren't valid, so I struggle talking anyone about them, but, I think I don't have friends. I have "friends", but I just can't feel complete with them. I have my bf's friends, but I don't feel welcome. Together with the fact that I struggle with social anxiety, I stopped trying to make friends long ago, I stopped being interested in it, thinking I'm okay by myself. And I am, I'm glad I don't actually mold myself to fit... but I'm tired of being alone. I say I prefer being alone, that's kinda true but, I do want to have true friends, but I can't find them. Maybe I'm the problem. Maybe I'm asking for too much? I just have my bf and I'm thankful bc he's the sweetest boy I ever met, but sadly I developed anxious attachment to him, maybe if I get friends that would go away? I don't know anymore, I'm starting to realize and remember that maybe I was hurt and betrayed several times since I was a child, so now I'm here.

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    @dil-dl7jv День назад

    ı am so ugly ı have no boy friend what must ı do please help me

  • @user-hu7te6uc7j
    @user-hu7te6uc7j День назад

    Miss 600 hundred dates......are you a lesbo ? For anyone wondering how she could afford an apartment in Stockholm.....she put sweat tears and blood into it......hahahahahhah.......

  • @ayane_m05
    @ayane_m05 День назад

    Sis... thank you so much for this video. I started to cry at the "Gaslighting" part because it's something that happend a lot to me with family members and also in relationships, but I never really paid attention to label what was actually happening. That was so important to me ❤❤

  • @GodHelpMe369
    @GodHelpMe369 2 дня назад

    The only thing I'm giving up on in my life: is the need for specific conditions to be met, in order for me to be RADICALLY HONEST. RADICAL HONESTY is my modus operandi. JOY IS MY PURPOSE. YESHUA IS MY GUIDING LIGHT. 1. Decide who you want to be and BECOME THAT 2. Set FIRM AND CLEAR boundaries 3. Cut out ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that doesn't serve your health and your wealth 4. Take action everyday toward your ideal life/reality 5. Gratitude 6. Master your mind/emotions (do not be a slave to these)! YOU ARE THEIR MASTER! 7. Keep your promises. Treat yourself like the Queen that you are. 8. Learn (and ultimately master) new HEALTHY skills 9. UNDERSTAND: not every man is built to see your value. They are not all capable nor able. 10. Be confident and authentic 11. Create peace around you, and within you 12. NEVER EVER accept anything/anyone that disrespects you and your boundaries 13. Be open to correction and growth and evolution 14. Be the woman God wants you to be and has created you to be A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, period. So... If he ignores me I will step back and he will lose me. I don’t play any of these childish abusive controlling mind-games. I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me, and treats me as the Queen that I AM. Because I am a beautiful and kind and sexy and wise and magical woman: who knows my worth. Period. Whenever you are alone, remind yourself that GOD has sent everyone else away, so that there is only you and him... Do not feel lonely, the entire universe is inside you. YOU ARE THE UNIVERSE IN ECSTATIC MOTION, BABY! Goodbyes are only for those who love with their eyes... For those who love with their heart and soul there is no such thing as separation. You have to keep breaking your heart until it opens (It is only then, that GOD can truly totally completely fully enter)! Our greatest strength lies in the gentleness and tenderness of our heart. --- Rumi You are constantly being re-born, re-created, re-generated, every moment. No belief is contained, held, or stored anywhere. It might cause a cascade that brings a symptom, breathing patterns, somewhere in the body, but the concepts, thoughts, and stories are constantly being re-created. You are generating it ALL, and this is unconscious. You can change in an instant!!! Every morning you wake up, your life story is re-constructed. Do I have to wake up believing reality is the way I believed it was yesterday? When breathing is restricted, get curious about what is holding it back, when it is open get curious about why that is... YOU are the Artist! Awareness of something alone IS enough, it untangles itself, the knots let go of you. Choose Freedom, take responsibility for your own suffering.

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  • @jesslyn5705
    @jesslyn5705 2 дня назад

    After setting that, So how to respond when we are actually being yelled at

  • @ananyasingh366
    @ananyasingh366 2 дня назад

    not her saying it is applicable to men and then immediately starting off with menstrual cycle!!

  • @ferdinandpe4528
    @ferdinandpe4528 2 дня назад

    Takk.. Godt Poeple’s....

  • @ferdinandpe4528
    @ferdinandpe4528 2 дня назад

    Persona’s Lair’s Always Lair’s to Me. Smil 😔😔😔😔😔😔✝️🛐✝️🛐✝️🛐✝️🛐⛪️🛐⛪️⛪️⛪️⛪️⛪️ I’m Persona’s Med Funksjonshemming/ Disability’s Persona’s.... More Lair’s Effect...

  • @garys-little-corner
    @garys-little-corner 3 дня назад

    Great videography, and a great presentation about being introverted.

  • @markh3376
    @markh3376 3 дня назад

    Look, you are so good

  • @alakirte
    @alakirte 3 дня назад

    Didn’t work, what do I do now?

  • @markh3376
    @markh3376 3 дня назад

    No worries 👍 You trust God care you 🙏 😊

  • @davidoverton4030
    @davidoverton4030 3 дня назад

    Lana, you're so wise, sensible & encouraging. I find your voice so warm & hypnotic. Plus, you're gorgeous. ❤

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  • @MrTimbo1111
    @MrTimbo1111 3 дня назад

    Being loved till the day you die is empowering! Being used as a sexual trash can by worthless convicts (thanks Feminism) and being discarded is not empowering.......go girl

  • @leofuruya
    @leofuruya 4 дня назад

    "Nobody owes you anything"

  • @leofuruya
    @leofuruya 4 дня назад

    Thats more than therapy for me

  • @Medietos
    @Medietos 4 дня назад

    Good to know that soem come for diversion/entertainment or boredom. I presumed everyone was tbhere to actually date and get some kind of relationship/contact.

  • @ThePodWithBailey
    @ThePodWithBailey 4 дня назад

    I LOVE THIS VIDEO, thank you Lana♡ Some of my favorite parts are..." Stores that are open 24 hours a day, knowing that someone will always be there for you" "realizing that around the world, there is probably some other kids that were born in the same hospital as you, even though you might never meet them, you share that same special moment with them, you enter life apart, but together" "the fact that we think the car raindrop game that we used to play was so personal, but knowing that a lot of other kids share that same experience" "no one thinks as badly of you as you do of yourself"

  • @ShreyaThakur0612
    @ShreyaThakur0612 4 дня назад

    Who else is watching from india??

  • @Jyuan315
    @Jyuan315 4 дня назад

    Listen lady, being ghosted is okay, back in 1800's there's no such thing, there's nothing wrong with you or the other guy. It's about choices. It's all about trying, keep trying. Nothing wrong with you, I have a sister and I always tell her that life isn't about a perfect instant spark. It's about continue co-existing in the same damn room together until the day you die. That's what real love is.

  • @ride851
    @ride851 4 дня назад

    🫧

  • @ride851
    @ride851 4 дня назад

    Mature enough to ignore flings.. Immature to balance serious relationship and career.. 🤹‍♂️

  • @ferdinandpe4528
    @ferdinandpe4528 4 дня назад

    I’m Persona’s Med Funksjonshemme/ Disability’s Persona’s lift you behind., It’s Realitys. That’s It’s Truth!!! Shy for them! Smil 😔😔😔😔😔😔... Takk

  • @kitty-pm6mz
    @kitty-pm6mz 5 дней назад

    i disliked this video when you started talking about being skinny bc my body is my biggest insecurity lmao. i removed my dislike and i’ll keep watching

    • @qrpcoaching8198
      @qrpcoaching8198 3 дня назад

      Your body should be complimented by likers and shamers should just not comment. I am sure you are pretty as you are!

  • @alienrobotcommando
    @alienrobotcommando 5 дней назад

    You're awesome!

  • @dahliaabdelrahman238
    @dahliaabdelrahman238 5 дней назад

    Noone could never dislike you ❤

  • @Annabelle99356
    @Annabelle99356 5 дней назад

    Your simplicity and authenticity is what what made us love you. The background music was kinda unnecessary.

  • @kpop-aminav5023
    @kpop-aminav5023 5 дней назад

    عكس شعور مثل ما افكر إذا لي قبلتهم رح يحبوني أو حبوني بعكس شعور وبفكر إذ انا حبيتهم

  • @artistsanomalous7369
    @artistsanomalous7369 5 дней назад

    "What you pay attention to will define what your reality is." I'm pretty sure that's a paraphrase of a quote by Qui-Gon Jinn.

  • @tsuki-san6002
    @tsuki-san6002 5 дней назад

    1:59

  • @kennytheripper2526
    @kennytheripper2526 5 дней назад

    I was absolute living the best in my life while I was all alone, which captivated the attention of my ex, who fell in love with me...but I continued my way Fast forward, 1.5 year later, she broke up with me the 2nd and the final time, leaving me in a state of complete voidness, unable to cry, talk to somebody, talk with girls, parents either, leaving me in the most miserable and pitiful scene I've ever been in my life.

  • @jamescairns7458
    @jamescairns7458 5 дней назад

    i cant believe it how could somebody reject you

  • @guillermomontoya3382
    @guillermomontoya3382 5 дней назад

    10:55 I also hate it when, during my skin care routine, floating hearts randomly appear behind me to let me know I’m nailing the look.

  • @ShreshthaShrivastava123
    @ShreshthaShrivastava123 5 дней назад

    My tips😅 Be confident😊 Be kind and helpful Participate in competitions and activities Score good mark Be humble Complete work on time Be organised Perfume😊😅😅😅

  • @MsPinkCrusader
    @MsPinkCrusader 5 дней назад

    Such clickbait

  • @cherylhoang
    @cherylhoang 6 дней назад

    speaking about good attitude, Regina George (Mean Girls) is mean but so attractive. why?? 😃